HS – Family Meeting
High School Family Meetings (Fridays from 1:00-2:45pm)
Possible Goals for Meetings:
- Pass on important information (through “Announcements”)
- Solve problems (as a community, where the students create or help to create viable solutions)
- Plan for the future (plan, as a group, class trips, projects, activities, etc.)
- Community building skills (students learn to take responsibility for themselves and the group)
- Share joys (through “Golden Shining Moments” – with GSMs, students share a brief story of something that lifted their spirits)
Roles students can play:
- Student chairperson/caller
- Scribe
- Timekeeper/timer
- Gatekeeper/focus person
Rules of Meeting:
- Raise hands (or, occasionally go around in a circle if it is an important issue in order to get everyone’s input)
- Try not to repeat what has already been said
- Respect your classmates; make it a safe place (everyone’s comments are respected; no one is laughed at)
- Everyone tries to stay focused
- Rules for Group Problem Solving:
- The person who raised the issue goes first, describing/defining/outlining the problem
- Others may add new information
- When students speak:
- Don’t blame, just explain
- Speak from own experience only (I feel…I was)
- After problem is defined, propose solutions
- Students choose which solution to try

